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Dear Kitty,

Please see below:-

On 3/10/2002 9:02:00 AM, Kitty To wrote:
>I am new to this fungshui but
>find it very interesting. Now
>after some reading, I have the
>following queries.
>1. In the 8 house theory for
>me and my partner, I find out
>that our directions are
>exactly the opposite to each
>other. E.g. his goods and my
>bads... so there is no way to
>find a good house for us both.
>What should I do now ? Stop
>reading about fungshui or is
>there any remedie for this.

1. This refers to the Eight House or 4 good & 4 bad directions. Since there are only the East Group or West Group of persons, 50% of the population will have issues that you face.

2. Statistically; 50% of all partners will have one spouse belonging to the East Group and their partner the West Group.

3. Thus, you are not the only person with this situation.

4. If one is choosing a new house one can follow the following guidelines:-

4.1 Where possible, try to find a house that is suitable to the `breadwinner'.

Usually, the definition is that the breadwinner is the `male' of the house e.g. the husband. But what happens if the `female' earns more or provides roughly equal income to the family?

Then, if it is a new house, one should try to buy houses with any of the following combinations at the main entrance door:-

Excellent/Irritation
Prosperity/Irritation
Health/Irritation
Longevity/Irritation

or

Excellent/Spook
Prosperity/Spook
Health/Spook
Longevity/Spook

If one already stayed in an existing house, there is no miracle cure. One has to live with the type of house "chosen ".

But in the master bedroom e.g. at North; if the husband's intangible sector is Health and the wife is disaster; then the husband should sleep closer to the North sector, while the wife sleeps on the opposite site. And use the husband as a shield.

>2. Our main door is exactly on
>my "death" area located. (I am
>a west house person but my
>main door is located east) I
>read that you can put some
>religious object like a cross
>for a Christian as remedie.
>But I am not a christian, what
>other object can I place and
>where should I place it ?

There is no miracle cure for this as mentioned above. In the above situation, it is good to look at the bedroom and the intangible force there. An try to sleep closer to it.

In recent years, it does not seem that even a cross does not really matter here. For personal comfort, one could perhaps, place one there -- just for personal peace of mind - thats all.

>3. I read that it's no good to
>have twin-size beds in our
>bedroom but because of the
>recline function of the beds,
>we don't want to get rid of
>it. Is there any remedie for
>this ? (Must admit that it's
>not going very well with our
>relationship).

Yes, it is not auspicious for couples to sleep on twin-sized beds. Even if we place a king sized or queen sized bedsheet on it.

It would be best to use a single king or queen sized bed. In addition, avoid any pointed triangle e.g. above the bedroom door designed triangle window. Or any triangle windows that would symbolically `spilt' the couple.

Warmest Regards,
Cecil